This Is What I've Found

You can think that it's selflessness
But if you feel that she owes something back
Then thats no more than trading favors

If you think friendship is about trading favors
Then you're greatly mistaken
Friendship is not made with time invested
It is not made with favors given
It cannot be bought with candy grams or chocolates

Friendship is something much deeper
Something much harder to define
Friends do not 'do this' or 'do that'
Friends are not always there for you:
They have lives too. 

It's just that, because they're friends,
If they are around, and not out clubbing
And not taking a nap, and not doing homework,
If they know you have a problem,
Then they'll be there for you.

But they aren't supermen, and they aren't telepathic.
They don't need to be to be your friend.
Your friends are human, and don't forget it
And don't expect more, and don't give more.

Don't give and give and give, and then wonder
with deep regret and bitterness, why nothing has been given back
Because that's not friendship
And it's not what you'll find in friendship

Friendship is a feeling, a comfort
Being able to say something without shaking
Not having any goal, not having any plans
To be with that person is happiness
To be apart from that person is loneliness
That is friendship.

It's that simple, that deep, that hard to understand...

This other kind of love that is not romantic...

So don't blame friendship... 
True friendship has no drama...
True friendship has no loyalty...
True friendship has no favors...
For a feeling is nothing but a feeling
The most powerful force in the universe.